From the moment I felt a bone marrow transplant was likely, I have always thought it would be Chandler who would be the donor. Chandler sometimes has an intense personality that pushes Ashtyn’s buttons. Ashtyn has a completely different dramatic personality at times that pushes Chandler’s buttons. There are moments when love is felt for one another but the majority of the time they drive each other crazy. I know that if any of my kids need to connect, it is Ashtyn and Chandler. They are 19 months apart and are now learning that their bond is much stronger than they thought.